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Purim on the Fringe: Some of My Parts

The Talmud in Megillah 13b records Haman's exchange with Achashverosh before the decree. Rava observes: "There was no one who knew evil speech like Haman." Haman said, "Come, let us destroy them." The king hesitated: "I fear their God—what He did to those who came before me." Haman answered: ישנו מן המצוות —they are lax in the commandments. The king noted, "But there are rabbis among them." Haman insisted: עם אחד הן —they are one nation. Then in Megillah 16a, Haman encounters Mordechai teaching his students. He asks what they are studying. They tell him: when the Temple stood, one who donated a mincha would bring a kemitzah of fine flour and receive atonement. Haman looks at them and declares: אתא מלי קומצי קמחא דידכו ודחי עשרה אלפי ככרי כספא דידי —your handful of flour has come and pushed aside my ten thousand talents of silver. Several things demand explanation. First, Haman has specific arguments to Achashverosh. What is the deeper meani...

The Inner Unity of the Four Mitzvot of the Seder

The Inner Unity of the Four Mitzvot of the Seder The night of the seder is shaped by four mitzvot that converge into a single, layered experience: Telling the story of the Exodus, Eating matzah , Avoiding chametz , and Tasting maror . These are not isolated rituals, nor separate commemorations. Together, they reveal an inner unity—a structure for confronting and transforming the human experience of suffering. Beyond the historical narrative, the Seder offers a profound psycho-spiritual journey for understanding and transforming our relationship with suffering. At the heart of suffering lies a particular kind of narrative. Our minds construct ongoing stories around pain: who caused it, what it means, where it leads. These narratives, though often unconscious, can become fixed. They loop around identity (“I am my suffering”), grievance (“I deserve better”), and fear, creating a self-perpetuating cycle of mental anguish. In many cases, they deny or distort the facts ...